When two people in a marriage are more concerned about getting the 'golden eggs' (the awesome things about their relationship),the benefits than they are about preserving the relationship that makes them possible,they often become insensitive and inconsiderate,neglecting the little kindness and courtesies so important to a deep relationship. They begin to use control levers to manipulate each other, to focus on their own needs, to justify their own position and look for evidence to show the wrongness of the other person. The love, the richness, the softness and spontaneity begin to deteriorate........

Love....a feeling is a fruit of love;the verb (sacrifice, listen, empathize, appreciate etc)...it is something you do;the sacrifices you make.

When we change one part of the chemical formula, we end up changing the nature of the results

The heart has its reasons which reason knows not of_____Pascal
........relationship matters